Published on August 15th, 2013 | by Rat King0
How to get a Japanese Girlfriend, Part 2: Meetup Works Wonders
In Part 1 of our “How to get a Japanese Girlfriend” series, we explored Pen Pal websites and learned how they can be a great first step towards finding that cute Japanese soulmate! However, many of you might be thinking “I want a Japanese girlfriend, but I am a terrible writer.” If that’s the case then consider a hobby group that you can physically attend!
There are a lot of sites out there where groups organize. My favorite though is Meetup.com.
Now obviously if you live in Japan, meeting cute girls in person through Meetup is going to be SUPER EASY! If you’re not in Japan though, here’s what you need to do…
- Step 1: Compile a list of search terms that are related to Japan.
- Step 2: Use your newly compiled list to search your area. Look through the members list for cute Japanese girls and decide if this is a group you want to join.
- Step 3: Get off the computer and go meet up!
Depending on where you live, you might run in to some problems…
Maybe your search ideas aren’t working. To keep the search ideas flowing, check out what groups are popular for Japanese girls who are actually LIVING IN JAPAN! Do a search for “Within 25 miles of Tokyo, JP” and watch the possibilities surface!
Maybe you live in a really small town and come up empty handed. In this case you might need to take matters in to your own hands and start your own group! You may be surprised at how fast your group will grow.
Maybe you find a group you like, but it’s all guys. This should not stop you from attending the meet up. Even if just one Japanese guy joins the group, he might hold the key to the Japanese community in your area. If the group is completely void of Japanese members, it’s still not time to be discouraged. Finding others who love Japan culture is a first step in the right direction.
Are you pumped up about Meetup yet? If not, then maybe this story will help!
Before moving to Japan I moved out to the Midwest to take a job in the Non Nude Teen industry. The job was awesome but the town sucked. I was desperate to meet other people who loved Japan and was dreaming about Japanese girls on a daily basis, day dreaming, night(?) dreaming! It was torturous. The only asian girl I ever saw was at the Japanese/Chinese restaurant and I couldn’t even tell if she was Japanese or Chinese. Obviously now that I’m living in Japan, I can spot the differences but back then I was green man! What was I going to do?
Well, I revved the engine up…search engine that is, and by looking for “hobby groups” I found Meetup. I was so excited but soon realized the number of groups was incredibly limited. Luckily though, there was a big Japanese car factory not far away and as luck had it, there was ONE Meetup group that looked promising, a Japanese Tea Ceremony group.
There were only a few members and they were all older than me, but I joined the group and fantasized all week that a lonely Japanese girl would see my profile, fall in love, and show up like a miracle for sucky fucky time.
Did it happen? Of course not LOL! What did happen though was awesome…
Besides learning how incredibly complicated a Tea Ceremony is, I met a Japanese woman in her late 50s. Later I met her “gaijin” husband and the three of us ended up becoming good friends. No, she didn’t have a hot virgin daughter (unfortunately), and no I didn’t have a crazy threesome, but what I ended up with was a Japanese mom and a home away from home.
I also ended up with Japanese friends. See, every summer her two nephews would come to visit for one month from Okinawa, and this time they were over 21 and ready to ParTay like foreign rockstars. We did a bunch of site seeing, went to the strip club for the first time, saw a baseball game, and just had a lot of fun. Now I’ve got friends in Okinawa and trust me, next time I get down there it’s going to be GAME ON finding some cutie Japanese college chicks.
The moral of the story is, if you want to get that Japanese girl you’ve got to take a first step even if the path isn’t crystal clear. Just move in the right direction and it’s sure to pay off. Oh, and by the way… because I finally made some Japanese friends, I found out that the girl at the Japanese/Chinese restaurant was Korean www. That’s a story for another day though.
Good luck on Meetup and if you find a better hobby site, let everyone know in the comments below!
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